If it makes you feel better, this feels less like fetishizing Steve's virginity and more like reveling in Steve's adorkability (which I'm sure most of fandom can get behind) combined with doing your part to rectify the gender proportions on the world's stock of virgin-deflowering stories (which I'm sure anyone who's glanced through the romance section will agree is desperately necessary).

Also, this was both sweet and smoking hot (which makes it sound like a barbecue sauce, but there you go). And Cap-on-KGB-operative porn would totally sell.