Yeah. It's definitely not the same, for Ianto, but that bone-deep grief, I think he's touched it enough that he at least understands. (There are one or two moments, down the line, where Lo is like STFU YOU KNOW NOTHING :D).
What you said about collars, that's more or less what I was groping for in the comment -- seeing something that's an intimate symbol for us, being normalised as a part of everyday wear. Though I was focusing on the appropriation of a kink in general, rather than a personal symbol for an individual, so I get what you mean.
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What you said about collars, that's more or less what I was groping for in the comment -- seeing something that's an intimate symbol for us, being normalised as a part of everyday wear. Though I was focusing on the appropriation of a kink in general, rather than a personal symbol for an individual, so I get what you mean.